By By Riches Danson
GOOD morning all, today I would love to address the issue of sex and lovemaking; it has become an ever-increasing issue in the lives of couples and has been contributing immensely to many marital upheavals.
Lovemaking is a beautiful thing; you make love not just with someone you love, but with someone you’re in love with. During lovemaking, there is plenty of communications. These communications help you know and understand your partner’s sexual needs; you will never be able to satisfy them if there’s no good communication.
How often do you ask him or her how best they enjoy it during sex? Do you even know what part of their body triggers them the most? How would you know if you didn’t ask? The major challenge in most relationships and marriages is LACK OF COMMUNICATION. How on earth would you be able to build and nurture the marriage of your dreams if you don’t communicate with each other? Ok, I think I know the reason for that communication gap…
It’s because most couples are not friends, so there’s nothing to talk and play about. Most couples can’t even remember when last they rolled on the bed, on the floor, throwing pillows, giggling, laughing, playing and making romantic jests with each other!
That’s fun. That’s friendship. These are the things that would make you miss each other whenever you are not together. Sex or lovemaking is not just to satisfy an urge, it’s an opportunity for you guys to explore and intimately bond with each other!
When this intimacy occurs, you would love each other’s body, you would love the smell of your bodies and even the breath of your nostrils. You would know when your partner needs your touches and they would know when you need theirs and each of you would always want to respond to these desires! It’s very important to respond… sincerely, sex is a beautiful thing!
If your sex life with your partner is not going fine, it’s not too late. You can begin to set up the communication platform. Take the initiative, and ask him or her what you guys are not doing right. Ask him or her what it is you’re not doing right during sex and learn how you can do it better. I’m sure he or she would also want to know what they are not doing right for you!
Lack of communication is terrible. Because your spouse might not even be able to help you handle some personal issues you might have. Such as vaginal odour, body or mouth odour, quick ejaculation or weak erection, loose vagina, etc, if you have any, because you guys do not have such a friendly relationship, he or she would just start avoiding intimate times with you. It’s only friends that watch out for each other.
Go ahead, build that friendship with your spouse. If it’s now very difficult for you guys to do that, then maybe you have to see a relationship counsellor.
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