By Rita Enemuru, Reporting
THE husband of Rosemary Obarijima, Obarijima Yorgba, who has been accused of battery, has also gone on Social Media to explain why his wife took him to Social Media platform.
He dropped his reaction on his Facebook timeline, explaining that his wife demonized him because she wanted more money from him.
After apologizing for laying his hands on his wife, he stated that her injuries were not gotten from beating, but from fighting.
He claimed that Rosemary also inflicted injuries on him by stabbing him, but those fights happened a long time ago.
Yorgba narrated how Rosemary left the marriage on May 27, without any explanation and later came to ‘kidnap’ their children to extort money from him.
He also added that Rosemary was in the habit of cheating on him while they were courting and also even when he was playing his role as a man.
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His submission in the court of the social media goes thus:
“I woke up to the news of my wife and I in public domain. Let me first admit and apologize to my wife for ever lifting my hands against her, but then let it also be established that it wasn’t a case of me beating her, but a case of fighting were she also inflicted bodily injuries on me(stabbed me), but i didn’t see a need for snapping it as i taught the reconciliation we had has healed and put to rest all that.
“My wife knows that this incident occurred seven years ago when we were still courting and she definitely knows it was because she was seeing someone else while i was the one footing the bills.
“Rosemary knows too well what I’ve gone through hell in her hands, where will i start from? However i must start somewhere.
State of house after wife ‘abduct’ the boys
“Everyone who knows I and Rosemary knows we’ve known ourselves for over 10Yrs now, i single handedly saw her through school, ND and HND, i paid her rents, school fees, feeding, upkeep and even sorting money when and where necessary.
“Even why I was doing all this, she’ll always abandon me to run after other men and return to me when she discovers that as bad as she claims i am, i am her god on earth.
“I’ve lost friends, family members and allies standing by Rosemary, most persons believe she’s using jazz on me, but to me i was believing in love, not knowing that my friends and family members were right that this love will someday consume me, and that day is finally here.
“My biggest regret is not to have abided by the saying that once your partner cheats on you, abandon him/her as they’ll do that again.
Children items left behind
“My marriage with Rosemary is 7yrs and over, I have never for once abandoned my obligation as the man, from paying rents to paying children’s school fees, feeding and what have you, even though I have set up a business for her, yet she’ll never admit to having money anytime or day and always remind me how it is my obligation to provide for the family.
“Exactly on the 27th of May, I was at work, I saw Rosemary’s call, she told me to go pick up my children from school and henceforth take care of them, I queried to know what was happening as we didn’t have a fight nor quarrel before living for work, she dropped the call and blocked my lines, I hurriedly took permission from work ran to my children’s school to pick them up and take them home.
“Meanwhile few weeks before that very day she had told me she wanted to expand her show glass for the organic cream she sells , so she has to sell the old one, innocent me I agreed and even helped the driver that came to carry it to load it, not knowing she was perfecting her plans to abandon me and the boys.
“Ever since we relocated to our new apartment, Rosemary started mingling with some ladies on the street, she started nagging and comparing me with those ladies husbands telling me what their husbands bought for them, imposing things on me, I had warned her to stop and allow me live within my limits but she kept on.
The battered wife
“Rosemary had stopped me from touching her for over 7months now, she had stopped cooking in the house, when i cook, she’ll eat and I’ll let her be to avoid any issues, Rosemary who is always tired will stay up chatting and laughing all through the Night and I’ll overlook for the sake of our boys. Let Rosemary come out and deny these things.
“You may all be wondering why she did the post she did, now here’s the issue, On the 6th of August is our first son’s birthday, Rosemary called me that she sent a gift for our son and i should go pick it up at God is good park, not knowing she was on my street with a car waiting for me to leave so she can kidnapp my boys and use them as a means of collecting money from me. On my return from the park, our maid told me madam has come to take the children out, Iwas surprised, I asked which madam?
“She said her madam na, so I called and she told me that going forward I can only send money for the up keep of my boys, so I told her I’ll establish a case of kidnapping against her if by the end of this month she does not return my boys, in a bid to earn public sympathy first, she hurriedly did that post and carried pictures of an incident that has occurred long ago.
Battered wife
“The truth is that i know rosemary and her antics , just maybe whoever deceived her to run out has started disappointing her and she’s broke, so because she knows I love my boys, she kidnapped them so she’ll be using them as a means of getting money from me, but what she doesn’t know is its not business as usual, I’ll use all legal means to retrieve my children from her and no amount of demonizing me will stop me from getting my boys back.
As I write this, my boys left my house with only the shirts they were putting on that day she came, all their school bags, clothes, books are in the house here, whenever the boys cry and disturb her that they want to see me, she’ll call me to talk to them and she’ll be telling them to shot up and tell me to send money.
I am Obarijima Yorgba the Demonized husband of the trending Rosemary,” he narrated.
Reacting to the post of her estranged husband on her Facebook timeline, Rosemary said that Yorgba Obarijima was a liar, as he had once beaten up her own mother when she came visiting after her giving birth.
“If a lair was to be a person then… is Obarijima Yorgba; Iam from ENUGU – EZIKI in NSUKKA ENUGU STATE do your research and know if women from this place cheat in marriage and Obarijima is aware of this.
The couple
“Obarijima Yorgba….u said i stabbed you, that means I will be dead by now. Can I even talk when u are talking? Then my mouth will be bleeding
“Obarijima Yorgba u have done me so much evil in this world; is it my mother that u haven’t beaten up when she came to take care of me after child delivery isn’t why she stopped coming to your house then? Jima my God will judge u and everyone backing up your evil act.
“Obarijima Yorgba everything u ever did to me i have my proof and witnesses to back it.
“This is the last post coming from me concerning this issue unless otherwise.
“Justice I need and justice I will get; let the law take over.”
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